TRUTH AND TRUST

I watched a panel discussion about the loss of privacy. One of the speakers made a very important statement about trust. He said if they had replaced the audience with monkeys, one could not expect them to sit beside each other in an orderly manner. They would fight.

Society is held together by trust. We trust that when we go to a movie, we will not have to do battle with the persons sitting next to us. We go to the store and we expect that we will not be murdered or raped in the parking lot. We believe that we live with next door neighbors, who may irritate us, but will not launch a grenade into our house.

But this is what is being destroyed in our society. Trust. The weapons being used are race, sexism, economic disparity, religious differences, politics, etc. But, above all, the weapon being used is the lie. Something or someone is trying to destroy the very structures that makes human life possible. Is it politicians? Is it Islam? Is it the “spirit of the age?” Who is lying to us and what is misleading us?

One element that astounds me is that people will declare you untrustworthy if you are a Christian and they do so in a blanket fashion. If there is just cause for this accusation, then Christians need to take note and repent. But I don’t think this is the case. Mistrust is used as a weapon by all people, Christian, non-Christian, liberal, and conservative. It often happens because the ends justify the means (as the saying goes), so truth is cast aside like a piece of wadded up paper. The issue of trust is most certainly connected with the issue of truth.

Many consider truth to be an outdated concept. We make our own truth. But that is not truth, that is propaganda. If there is no truth, there can be no rule of law or science or confident medical practice. Truth exists. The question is, will we have the integrity to tell the trust and thereby be trustworthy?

We know that there many cultures where trust does not exist and we call them barbaric. I suggest that we all need to think about what is destroying us. White and black, rich and poor, urban and country, and any other dichotomy that you can think of, need to think long and hard about these things. What can we do to restore trust in our neighbor? What can we do to return to one nation (under God), a melting pot of cultures that become one people?

SEXUAL HEALING

I am prompted to write about sex because of what I see as a pastor and a human being. Sex has become cheap and meaningless in our society. All the restraints have been removed and people do what they want. The current culture sees sex as a leisure pursuit with no spiritual connections or moral obligations. But we also know that it is taking a toll on the lives of humans of all ages. In fact our cultural practices have become extremely destructive. It threatens childhood, it destroys marriages and it leads to a meaningless existence for humanity. What if culture is wrong? I think it is wrong and will tell you why.

Evolutionary theory has infiltrated all aspects of human life. This is particularly true of behavior. It is assumed that human sexual behavior is no different from any other animal. In fact, there is no abnormal sexual behavior, just alternative life styles. However, wisdom and Christianity teach that this is not true.

Evolution assumes that there is nothing special about humans. We are just another animal. The Bible says that we are made in the image of God, often referred to in theology as the Imago Dei. We are part of the created order but we are a special category because we are made in God’s image. The implications are enormous. This is especially true in human sexuality.

As part of the creation story, it is clear that God made man male and female. Being in the image of God means being made male and female. According to Genesis, a man was to leave his family and take his wife and the two become one. Sexuality is an expression of God’s crowning glory given to humanity.

Of course, the Fall changed everything, especially the way we see ourselves. Sin is rebellion against God. We seek to do things our way instead of God’s way. We reframe our nature in any way that is contrary to God. With the help of evolutionary theory, we have a proper excuse to live like an animal. And this is particularly true when it comes to sexual behavior.

Sex is natural, just as it is for animals. It is natural for animals to have sex whenever they want. It is the fulfilling of a biological need. Our genes drive us into this behavior. Thus it is only a biological act and it is not necessary for us to have any kind of moral or religious restraint over this completely natural behavior. And because it is such a natural act, it makes us happy.

But, we know deep inside that this is not true. Men and women suffer true guilt as they break the rules of God. But in particular, humans suffer tragic guilt when it comes to sexuality. In time it leads to harsh regret and broken relationships. Animal-like sex actually destroys true intimacy between men and women.

Along with the guilt comes destructive behavior. If people are so happy with their discovery of animal behavior, why do they turn to drugs and alcohol, meaningless sexual encounters, all which often lead to depression, alienation and a loss of meaning? Alienation and loss of meaning are the affliction of modern humanity. We feel so small in the universe, worthless and there does not seem to be a place where we can belong. Even in our age of social media, electronic relationships can deepen the alienation.

Perhaps it would be wise to revisit what God has said. We are not mere animals. We are creatures made in the image of God. The image of God belongs to God, not us. It is something that God gave to us and we cannot throw it away or change the reality of its existence. We can appeal to science, philosophy or personal experience and try to reduce our being to nothing but an animal, but it can never be true. The image belongs to God and no matter how hard we try, how low we sink, we cannot stop being Imago Dei. Our own existence convicts us of our rebellion against God.

Human sexuality is ground zero for this soul battle for significance. The permanence of the Imago Dei is true for the person fleeing from God, for the person who has rejected God and claims to be an atheist, and it is true for the believer who is living contrary to God’s will. Humans are the only creature that have sex for other reasons besides procreation. What I am about to say is shocking. The intimacy of human sex, is the best analogy that we have to understand the relations of triune nature of God. No, I am not saying that the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit have sex. What I am saying is there is clearly an intimacy between the persons of the godhead, a perfect intimacy. One of the terms used in the study of the Trinity is Perichoresis. It means a mutual inter-penetration of persons. It almost sounds sexual because sexuality is the closest analogy we have to understand this relationship. Perichoresis mean what the Son thinks the Father thinks. What the Spirit thinks, the Son thinks, etc. In other words there are no hidden experiences or ideas or agendas among the three Persons. It is one God in three Persons in a perfect relationship.

The analogy of relation did not slip the mind of God. In fact, in describing the relationship of God’s people to himself, he calls the church his Bride. We have a mysterious relationship with God in that salvation connects us spiritually with God. Now we are in Christ and Christ is in us. It does not make us divine but it is the restoration of the broken Imago Dei. We are brought into a deep, spiritual, intimate relationship with God.

If we are made right with God, the ideal of sexual intimacy is restored. One man, one woman becomes one, as close and intimate as possible. Marriage is the place for this oneness. It not only brings glory to God, it brings glory to us as well. There is no guilt, there is no destructive behavior trying to cover up our knowledge of sin.

Years ago, Marvin Gaye recorded a song titled Sexual Healing. Certainly the song itself reflects the problems that come from broken and abusive approach to sex. However, sexual healing is possible when one comes to Christ. When one is redeemed, God begins to rebuild the broken image including our broken sexuality. Sex is raised from the vulgarity of our current culture to the sacred nature of one man and one woman for life.

If this is true for our sexual behavior, can we not see that it is true for all of our lives in general? Evolutionary theory is a reductionist theory. It reduces us to nothing but biological creatures with no higher purpose and no higher relationship. It is this reductionist view that causes so much sorrow for humans. It creates true guilt before God. It explains why life is becoming increasingly cheap. It is easy to kill, to party, to have sex with as many people as possible, to cheat and steal. While this trend is part of our humanity, we really do know that all of it is wrong. We know this is not the way it is supposed to be. Our sin nature compounded by our actual sins drives us to rebel against God and resist him no matter how low we go. We don’t want him to control our lives or tell us how to live. It seems that we would rather suffer depression, alienation, and the loss of purpose than to come to God for his salvation.

We were made for better things. When God gets a hold of us, he begins to remake us and to restore us. Francis Schaeffer said that when we are redeemed and restored by God, we become the creature glorified. We become restored to the fullness of the Imago Dei.

“I am a creature, it is true, but I have a calling to be the creature glorified. I must be the creature, but I do not have to be the creature like the clod in the field, the cabbage that is rotting in the field as the snows melt. I am called to be a creature by choice, on the basis of Christ’s finished work, by faith: the creature glorified.” (Francis A. Schaeffer. “True Spirituality.” Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., 2001-09-01. iBooks)

When we come to Christ, we are restored to a right relationship with God through Christ. The reason that God became flesh and died on our behalf was so we could be restored to the relationship with God for which were created. We are more then mere animals. In Christ we are the creature glorified.